Respect- Give It To Get It.

What does it mean to give respect and get respect?

So many people think respect is something you have to earn. I cringe inwardly whenever I hear someone say “people have to earn my respect”.

Respect is not something that should have to be earned. It should be given freely and gotten back in return. When you think someone else has to earn your respect, that means you think you are better than them. You have put yourself on a pedestal, instead of being on equal ground. It’s disrespectful to the other person, and when your disrespectful, guess what you get back, disrespect.

I get so tired of hearing people complain about how no one gives them respect, but when you ask them how they think they should give respect it’s always the same answer. People have to earn my respect. No wonder you get disrespected so much.

If you think that your respect has to be earned you will never get respect. If you want to get respect, change your way of thinking.

You give respect to get respect. Stop thinking you are better than everyone else. If you want to gain respect, you have to realize the world does not revolve around you. Take interest in other people, be genuinely interested in what they have to say. Listen before you speak.